Monthly Archives: December 2013

It’s Christmas! Happy Birthday Mom!

It’s Christmas! Happy Birthday Mom!

My mom, Betty Diehl, would have been 105 today. She was born on Christmas day of 1908. She left her body when it was 88 years of age. I say “it” and not “she” because she was not her body. I was with my mom when she “died,” and it was very apparent to me then, as it was when Darlyne “died,” she/they didn’t “die” at all. Her Spirit left her body, that’s all. And that’s who she is, after all, her Spirit, not her body. That’s true for all of us, and so once again I reiterate, there’s nothing to worry about, nothing to fear. We never die! We are all immortal! Happy birthday, Mom! I love you! I’ll see you soon.

Love and Light . . . . .

Where Do We Go And What Do We Do When We “Die”?

Where Do We Go And What Do We Do When We “Die”?

I don’t know. However, I can state my opinion. This is my blog, so I can do or say whatever I want here. It’s up to you whether or not you want to read it. So, here’s what I believe. In the first place, as I’ve stated before many times, WE DON’T DIE!  We just leave our bodies, our earthsuits, as my late wife, Darlyne, always referred to them. It probably takes us a while to get used to what’s happened. Of course there is no time where we are now so it doesn’t matter. I believe that we are greeted by loved-ones from the “life” we just left, and probably many others, and we become THRILLED at the fact that we’re “dead,” but that we’re still very much ALIVE! We’re also thrilled by the fact that we no longer have any pain, fear, dread, anguish, regret, remorse, depression, anxiety, anger, rage, resentment, and the list goes on. Instead  of those things, we get to know PEACE.  At some point I believe that we’re given a life-review. We’re not punished for anything, but we’re able to experience what our actions felt like, from the other person’s point of view. When we’ve done a hurtful thing, we feel the hurt the other person experienced. When we’ve done a loving act, we get to feel the love. In this way we learn and grow and that’s what life is all about after all.

After that, I don’t know. I’ve read that there are great cities made of crystal that are institutes of higher-learning. I’ve heard many things that are basically people’s opinions, which may or may not be true. I do believe in the white-light experience that I’ve read so much about – or in Darlyne’s case, her pink-cloud experience. If you want to know what I’m talking about, you’ll have to buy a copy of our book and read the epilogue. (The epilogue is Darlyne’s experience as she made her transition. It was written by Deborah – a very gifted Psychic Medium who made the journey with her.) As I said, buy a copy. I’ve even published a Kindle-version so you won’t have to wait for it in the mail.  Just click on the “Darlyne’s Book” tab above to read about it.

Is there SEX after death? I’m sure there is! Sex is a wonderful form of intimacy! I think that sex “there”  goes way beyond what we experience here, and nobody will need Viagra!  I believe that “there” we can actually become ONE with the other person – and  that we can experience TRUE INTIMACY, beyond anything we can hope to imagine where we are now. But then, that’s just my opinion – my belief. You need to find out what your Truth is. And I’d really like it if you’d share that with us here, so we can get a dialog going.

Love and Light

Of The Fear Of Death And Of Love

Of The Fear Of Death And Of Love

The older I get, the less I seem to know. When I was a young man, I knew everything! Now, at the age of 71, I realize I know only a little, and I’m not completely sure about most of that. (Of course,  I am not 71. Only my body is. I, on the other hand am Infinite and Eternal, just like you.) There is one thing I’ve come to realize, at least for me. Love is all that matters!  The rest is just stuff. When I “die,” I won’t care about the money I’ve made, the prestige I’ve had, the cars I’ve driven or the houses I’ve lived in. All I’ll care about is the love I’ve shared.  Yes, it’s nice to have those things and to have the freedom that money provides, but the only thing I can take with me is love. Love is eternal. It never dies. No act of love is ever lost, or wasted. How much have I truly loved in my life? How can I be loving today? How may I be of service?

When I am truly loving – love-filled – I am free of fear. When I live a life of love, to the best of my ability, I have no fear of “death,” or anything else. Love is eternal. God  is Eternal, and I am eternal because God and I are one. I find that my day goes by much better if I “practice the Presence of God,” as Joel Goldsmith wrote.

When I start my day asking, “What can I do for You today, God?,” things go much more smoothly. Being of service at every opportunity creates peace in my life and where there is peace there can be no fear. And of course, the other part of being free of fear is to “be here now,” as Baba Ram Dass has so often reminded us. I love the bumper sticker that says, “I’d rather be here now.” When I’m here now, I’m not regretting yesterday or fearing tomorrow. And, WOW, when I’m in the present moment and being a channel for love – well things just don’t get any better – and I am completely free of fear!

Love and Light